Hi,
I don't know where you are but I see Big Beautiful Women all around. sometimes when we are running around doing errands or chores or even in the workplace we don't look sexy. Many of us don't know we are sexy, or that men like us. I'm a good example of that one... I was in my mid forty's before I found out there were men out there that like big women. Many big girls keep their sinuousness and sexuality for private times and don’t advertises as many of our slender sisters do. There could be several reasons for that, one is the lack of tastefully sexy clothing available. When we do find some the cost is often exorbitant. Then there is how society looks at us, I have on occasion, been told at work that I am showing too much cleavage even though the top I am wearing is not cut anywhere as low as the slender woman across from me. Since I like eating, I attempt to conform to my employer’s restrictions like it or not. (or find a new job) Then there is there are many cruel people out there that ridicule and verbally abuse large people (men and women) it is often easier to sink into the background than to put ourselves In harms way.
Okay, I’m finished ranting. I suggest if you see a big/chubby/BBW/Phat etc… woman that might be of interest to you go introduce yourself…. Get into a conversation… Ask her out. You never know most of us clean up really well.