These names are all starting to seem like a vortex to me. So many seem like they're built on a former lie that it's a rubik's cube to get back to the original 'truth.'
I was never fully convinced cardude was even a dude - but at some point stopped caring. When I saw wedding dude, I of course assumed cardude, and then maybe the woman former poster who is really cardude, etc.
I mean - if we're playing the wild random guessing game, I smell RPS/Mangenta/whatever she called herself as the jewelry maker. The 'dude' thing fits with her original nonsense about gender not mattering online, blah blah blah, then her ongoing inability to really fit in but to desperately WANT to clearly with at least five different attempts about which I am aware, each ending in that caustic judgey place where she can't resist digging in on some issue to the point of alienating everyone.
But I've been wrong many, many times, and it doesn't really matter. My responses to these anons are not colored by who I 'think' they might be, just what they're doing right now.