There is very little hope of a reconciliation (less than 5%). We both just want out. That said, we are getting along better than we have in years- mostly because we know its over- and there is a huge sigh of relief about it.
The last couple of weekends, we have been apart. She is off this week, and I am working from home. The boys are around, and we have been doing things as normal. We even went to a dance yesterday, together. Which felt odd, but hey- that's okay.
You have to realize, this has been going downhill between us for years. The last two have been the worst. Now, its time to separate our crap, sell the house and get out of dodge.
Anyway- love the supportive words...Lea you are a hoot! Hope everyone is doing well- again, love you all!