AnonoPajama (no login) Posted May 21, 2012 11:40 AM
What insults? Are you kidding?
You're nitpicking a point with vows you made up. You think the congregation minds that you left that 2 year old with your mother in law? They don't. Well, maybe the other ones that are pouting about not being able to bring Rex, Jr. to an event Rex, Jr. couldn't care less about. You're acting as it it's wrong to not invite children. It's not. Just like any other event, it's up to the discretion of the host. Right? Right. You stating over and over again that it's all about the beauty of family doesn't change that.
Didn't you elope and then throw a party? So, no $8,000 dress. No filet mignon and dover sole. No giant reception hall. You did what worked for you. Great! I choose not to have them at mine. So? Only people that are getting their panties knotted are the ones that seen to feel it should be all about them instead of what? The people getting married.