Has anyone in your family that has seen you naked ever touched you , by accident or on purpose? What was your reaction? How old were you when it happened and has it happened since then?
Has your father or brother ever catch you masturbating? Did they join in and make it a circle jerk?
I have been caught jerking off by my mother and brothers, but there has NEVER been any touching involved, although a few folks freaked to hear that I do not stop masturbating when I am caught - at least not till I am done. I have done jerk off circles with one of my brothers, and a few times with friends. A few of the guys on my hockey team got a little drunk about a few weeks ago and ended up buck naked at a lake near my house. One of the guys started doing it, and then I started, and pretty soon we were all doing it. My girlfriend thinks its nutty, but I told her it is kind of normal for guys.
Since you have had a lot of exposure with others, has size of your willie or others ever been an issue with you? You sound like you probably have something to be real proud of versus the average dude, or maybe it is just your cool attitude toward being totally human and confidence in your bod and self. I use to have issues about being uncut since most of the guys I have been around are all cut. All of my friends were cut. I always felt there was a correlation between being cut and getting pubes early. I did not get mine until 14 and most of my friends , if not all , got them at 11 and 12.
Mike, I find it hard to believe that you have never been accidently touched. Most guys I know have at least been accidently bumped. What about when you wrestle with your brothers or friends dude?
To Darren first: I am in a lot of sports, so there is a lot of locker room time, and like I said, my teammates and friends and I do some partying and have been naked together, particularly at the lake near my house. So there is a bit of teasing that goes on between friends. I am about 5 1/2 inches stiff, and the guys will joke about me a bit, but we are all about the same length. Also, since my parents are both doctors who saw no reason for it, I and my younger brothers are uncut. (My older brother is cut, though. Don't know why.) Most of my friends are cut, too. Truth is though, guy, being cut or uncut does not affect length or pube. I got my hair at about 12, and well I don't know when my brothers first got their pube, we all had it by about the same age. (My older brother and I, ages 21 and 17, also have a fair amount of chest hair, and my 15 year old brother is already getting a little.) So, no, its got nothing to do with being uncut. By the way, I do get teased a lot for being uncut, but personally, I like being uncut. In response to C., I did not consider wrestling as touching, I guess, but you are right. I have never wrestled with my brothers in the nude, but I have with my friends a little. Nothing big, though, just goofing off. One time, when a few of my friends and I were partying, we got a little drunk and did a j/o session where we did each other, but that was it. Never anything with family, which was what the question was.
Thanks for answering my questions. It is interesting that your older bro was cut and the rest not. It is nice to know that there are people who are so comfortable with their bods, especially around other people, that they do not have serious issues. I think that if one can be comfortable with their body , nude or otherwise, then they are most likely very comfortable everywhere in their life.
Mike, It sounds like you guys did a little more than touching. What exactly did you and your friends do? Did you have direct contact with your friends body fluids? Does your girl friend know? What did she say?
PS: Mike be careful you could be placing yourself at risk of contacting a disease.
Sorry to be delayed, my family went out of town for the 4th. First of all, thanks Darren, I've never been called an inspiration before. Actually, when you've got two parents who are both doctors and 4 kids in the house who are all in their teen s or older, nudity is not a big deal. I keep myself in shape and have nothing to be embarrased about. By the way, I have no idea why my older brother is cut and the rest are not. There is a few years difference in age between my older brother and I, so maybe my parents just got new ideas. Frankly, I am glad I am uncut. As to C, no, we really did not do anything but jack each other off, and it was not all of us. It was pretty much just a typical teen age circle jerk. My biggest problem that night was coming home and getting thoroughly reemed by my parents for underaged drinking. Believe me, there was no chance for disease. Oh yeah, I did not tell my then girlfriend, but I did tell my current girlfriend about it. She thinks guys are nuts.
Hey, I am back again because I got to thinking about our discussion. I realize that sleeping in the nude is the point of this site, but C. got me wondering. Is circle jerking that rare? I've only done it twice, but I was wondering if you guys have done it. I always thought it was part of what teen guys do sometimes, especially since its hard, as a teenager to get sex sometimes. I've been lucky that my last two gfds love sex and we can do it often, but there are times when there are no other ways to relieve myself. Sleeping in the nude I don't think is sexy in and of itself, and I need to masturbate a lot, but sometimes even that is not enough. Anyhow, I know it's off topic, but I was wondering what you guys think?
I don't think what Mike is describing is that weird. It has been a few years since I was a teen but I did do a couple of circle jerks with my buddies. I went on to lead a very normal life. Masturbation is part of the sex life of a normal, healthy male. Doing it as a group is very normal for young and sexually curious men. It is a way of enjoying sex and learning that your sexual urges and activities are commonplace.
Most of my buddies and I did this, usually it was 2 or 3 of us. We were always interested in sizes and cut versus uncut, thickness of pubes, and whether anyone had gotten laid. I never knew anything about sex until my best friend ask me at 12 if I had pubes yet. He was 12 also. He was cut and I was uncut. We took a lamp to hold close to our willies to see if we could see hair growing yet. He had one and I had none. [ At 15 he knocked up a girl and became a father, he was a preacher's son ]. Another friend showed me at 14 about masturbation. I had pubes then. He showed me what to do. We use to do other things throughout the summer in the woods. Always loved that time period in my life. My friends and I always did things like that together. Sometimes we touched each other and sometimes we did not. All got married and raised families. Just a fun thing to do. My brothers [ all older than me ] never showed me anything and I rarely ever saw them naked. We never ran around naked in the house, too many people.
Thanks Darren and Rick for your views. I'd heard from my older brother about doing a circle jerk efore I had ever done one. I really thought I'd never do it myself - too wierd. But a lot of beer and a teenagers hormones seemed to change my mind. Not surprisingly though, my friends and I usually don't talk about it after the next day. Guys are like that I guess. Still, as fun as it was, I still prefer sex with my gf.
Mike, could be they didn't talk about it the next day because they were embarrassed they had done that. I think it would seem pretty weird to alot of people. It did take alcohol to get them to do it, apparently, so it isn't something they would do if they had their wits about them.
I suspect this is nothing new, it's just that I had never heard of such a thing (the circle thing) before.
Dear JB, yeah, there is no doubt about it that we were all a little embarrassed. I would probably not have done it - either time - if I had'nt knock back a few beers. (My parents were pissed about my drinking when they found out, too.) Still, it's a stupid guy thing, and you look back on it half embarrassed and half like it was a fun joke or something. I know when my older brother told me about it, he was also a bit embarrassed. Still, its one of those things you look back on and kind of laugh while you squirm
I did a few circle jerks in my youth and while I was embarrassed shortly after I now have pleasant memories of them. It is natural for young men to be curious about sex and want to see how they compare to other men. Group masturbation is a way of checking out the competition; how big they are, how much they shoot, how far they shoot and how long they can hold on. Besides, it just feels good! Circle jerks may not be something the majority of us have participated in but it is not an abnormal sexual practice.
Well, I got up my courage and asked my dad about circle jerks. He and my mom are both doctors, so I figured they'd know about it. He said that among boys 14 to 18, the stats showed that about 32% of males have engaged in behavior like that regardless of sexual orientation. Luckily, my dad was cool about this. I was a little too embarassed to ask my mom. I got to say, though, I've only done it twice, but I do kind of look back on it as kind of fun. My girlfriend just thinks guys are nutty, but she was cool when I told her about it. It has not hurt our relationship, and we have great sex, so I figure everything is ok. No hangups.
Ask your dad if he had ever participated in the practice when he was your age? Those are interesting stats.
Just goes to show that a lot of men think nothing of it, just a passing phase on their way to being men. BTW Mike, is your father cut or uncut? Have you ever seen him with an erection?
A friend of mine use to see his dad , who was uncut, erect every morning. Said it was around 7" hard. He was straight so it was not a major thing with him. He thought it was funny. He and I use to jerk off together to pics of penthouse and playboy mags all the time.
I'll ask my dad, someday, but it's not the kind of thing I bring up with him everyday, and we are a pretty open family. Since my dad and I play tennis a lot and shower afterward, I've seen him naked and he is cut, but I've never seen him stiff, and both my parents sleep in pajamas, unlike their four sons. I think I mentioned that only my older brother and father are cut. My younger brother and I are uncut - don't know why. By the way, I have seen my brothers with a hard on.
When I grew up, how much experimentation among other guys depended on the activities one was involved in. I was in scouting for about 7 years, and it was common, for some, not all, of us to compare dick sizes, jerk off together, either in groups or in twos. Once in a while we'd jack another guy, but most of the time not. I think that regardless of sexual orientation, it is natual for a man to check out how he compares to another man, when the opportunity comes up. I belong to a nudist group of men, women and kids. While there is no sex involved, one would have to be blind not to see what others look like and to compare. I have also noticed that when one enters a men's room with many urinals and no dividers, when you pull up to the urinal, most heads of others already there, will turn to check you out and then go about their business. Much to my surprise, I have had sraight men tell me I am well hung, as a compliment and nothing more. Other straights at the nude group have freely admitted they like to see and be seen. It is indeed important to be comfortable with your body. I wish I never the answer to this, and Mike, maybe your Dad can tell you. I am cut. So is my brother. I am cut so that I have plenty of foreskin, but no overhang. My brother is cut to the quick in that he has almost no foreskin. My mother had the same obstetrician for both of us. How does the doc decide in the circumcision process, how much to take off, and why is there such a difference among cut men? One would think that a standard process would be used for all. The only answer I can imagine is that since there is no way of knowing at birth how big one's penis will be, perhaps even if the same amount was taken from all, some would end up with more foreskin than others.
Did you or your brothers ever masterbate with each other .and if you did .did you brothers ever tast each others cum before.did you guys ever jack each other off.didyou ever suck yours brothers off . did you want to.
neither dad nor brother ever caught me masturbating. ive seen my bro with a woodie when we were younger, we giggled. but no masturbation or touching. I masturbated with a kid my age in jr. high or high school (can't remember) he was spending the night with me and pulled the front of his bvd's down to show me his boner. this led to some fairly enjoyable masturbation sessions together one summer. no family involvement though.
I was never caught by my dad, but my mom caught me. was really embarrassing at the time. Was going at it when she walked in. I thought no one was home. She didn't say anythig at first then she said was ok its a natural thing to do.
My wife and I had an extremely open relationship with out kids. We felt from the start that they should feel comfortable discussing anything with us- including sex. We made it known that masturbation was a perfectly normal and healthy activity (and much preferable to the alternatives) and they were free to do it in their rooms anytime they wished.
Nudity was another thing that was never a taboo at our house. We didn't want the kids thinking there was anything shameful about their bodies so from the start the kids swam in our pool nude- as did we- so there was never shame or embarrassment about seeing each other nude. I think this alone aids trust and communication.
Some may think this was pretty radical but they never got into any trouble with sex or drugs and all grew up to be successful well adjusted adults which tells me our philosophy worked pretty good.
I must have missed this one first time around. Thanks Nat for resurrecting the topic.
My own parents were very modist and there was no evidence of any body whatsoever existing underneath clothing. I never saw either of the naked, even to this day. OTOH, my brother and I were often naked together as we shared a bathroom situated between our rooms.
When I was 15, I started living with my bf and his family. (Long story) Since we were both 9, I often slept over at his house and his family was very open about nudity. I had often seen both his parents and his sister naked. They saw me naked as well. We all swam naked in the pool. Sometimes he and I would run through the backyard separating our houses nakek and come to my house naked for something or other. My mom never said a word abour our being naked. The neighbors between us ran an art gallery and thought two naked boys were "cute". Years later, while we do not run through the neighbor's yard any more, the situation is much unchanged. Ronnie's sister and her husband are often "home" when we are, and he has fully joined the "naked family".
Regarding masturbation. Ronnie's parents and his sister have "caught" us Ronnie and me jacking together, as well as on a few occasions have also seen us sexing together. These have all been quite by accident, but there was no shame given nor taken either. OTOH, my parents caught Ronnie and me sexing when we were 15 -- that's the reason I was forced out of the house when I was 15 and started living with Ronnie. Before I moved out my brother and I (he's 4 years my younger) and I had occasionally messed around with each other -- and we still do on occasion, thugh he is str8 and I am not. We just do it as a brotherly act of affection. He says that his gf (now fiance) knows and doesn't mind as long as there is enough of him left for her. Ronnie and I and my brother Aaron and she have on two occasions spent weekends at Ronnie's parents lake side cabin and shared his parents king size bed at night. She is very open and accepting about nudity and sexing. Though Ronnie and I have never sexed with her, we have had 4-some experiences together. My parents would be appaled -- Ronnie's parents accepting but not approving of the sexualization.
