For one thing, your site is listed in google. If you do a search for www.set-the-mood.com you can click on the "find web pages that link to www.set-the-mood.com
and it comes up with the following results:
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&q=link:5YtlRAQ7LqoJ:www.set-the-mood.com
Apparently you gave a testimonial at:
http://www.heatherswebdesign.com/testimonials.htm
so that's one source of traffic,
And if you do a search on google for the phrase "set-the-mood.com" with the quotation marks, you get a whole lot more sites that link to your site.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&q=%22set-the-mood.com%22&btnG=Google+Search
You need a website tracking service, like
http://www.hitbox.com
I use host4profit as my webhost, and they have a great tracking service. Also you might want to check out:
http://www.bizpromo.com for some great promotion methods,
Mike
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