Don't know if we have met before, but let me give you a little advice. If either of them is "the one" you will know it instantly. As for the married guy, well believe it when you see the divorce papers ~been there, done that~ And don't feel bad about the money they are going to spend on you, enjoy it while it last, cause after you get married ~let me tell you~ for some reason they don't seem to spend as much on you after the wedding ~giggles~ Good luck with your decision and finding your soulmate. I got lucky with Asmo and found my Mr. Right ~smiles~
