without even knocking on the door


the war is open and i'm desperate


is it just me or is it really inacceptable to do such thing ?

am i taking it too seriously ?

have you told him to respect your privacy?

otherwise, a lock on the door might do the trick.

www.myspace.com/kcamosy

Did you have your rat out?

tell him to his face. that is rude.

Why is everyone assuming it's a him?

It is a him, ELT - and he's a nerd.

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I do feel a bit sorry for him though TBF.

My flatmate's a twat. Sits in his room all evening watching his massive tv and has a strange and annoying habit of leaving the fucking front door open, and the bathroom and toilet doors open with bottles of bleach (which I end up tripping over) with the lights on.

Then when I'm in the kitchen for only a few seconds, he'll come out and check that I'm not touching his stupid foreign food.

i told him several times to respect my privacy, he's just a complete wierdo

and yes, i usually lock my door, but i just forgot this time


i think he's actually hassling me, it's really painful :(

Walk into his room and kick him square in the nuts

Tell him if he keeps doing it you will break the lease - I would think that would be just cause for breaking it legally.

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My flatmate's a twat. Sits in his room all evening watching his massive tv and has a strange and annoying habit of leaving the fucking front door open, and the bathroom and toilet doors open with bottles of bleach (which I end up tripping over) with the lights on.

Then when I'm in the kitchen for only a few seconds, he'll come out and check that I'm not touching his stupid foreign food.

you can be honest with us. have you maybe had a bit of his foreign food in the past?

www.myspace.com/kcamosy

i've noticed a recent decrease of my vitality and became quite more depressed these lasts weeks and i think he might actually be the cause of that.



has anyone ever be hassled ?


can someone relate how stressing and painful it is ?

lytias, my old flatmates were racist twats who used to throw food at my door and threaten me and shit whenever I told them they were twats.

try to resist feeling like a victim, lytias. take action! tell the other housemates, tell him you'll be forced to contact the landlord if it ever happens again. lay out some boundaries calmly, yet forcefully. type them out, give him a copy. post a copy to your door if you have to. if he steps out of line again, see about getting him removed from the flat.

is his name on the lease?

www.myspace.com/kcamosy

Give the nerd a break

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also, be aware that gaydars will pick you up with a 500% increased strength.

i will definitely call the landlord tonight because there's several incidents like this since i moved in the flat a few weeks ago


one other thing he constantly does is whenever i'm in the kitchen with him, he does some strange noises like 'mmm...' looking at me
it really put me unease


the annoying thing is that he's actually the landlord's son so it will be a bit more tricky to explain what happen but still, i will do it cause this now getting unbearable


thanks for the advices x

Rhb, are you making some dark humor there ?

do you know how it feels to be hassled ?

it's one of the wierdest thing you can live so try beeing less selfish and see how serious this is

has he tried coming on to you or flirted with you?

Maybe he fancies you?

well of course he probably does, but he doesn't respect me and my privacy as i've made it clear previously that we were just flatmades and that i was not looking for any kind of intimacy

Just stay away from the mayonnaise.

:(

chairman, this is not wise, trying to make me feel guilty or whatever your nasty insiduous comment is supposed to mean


i have to move from this flat now and get my deposit back otherwise i'll have to report this situation to the police

because this guy is definitely wierd and is probably not going to change

btw, chairman, i suspect you to be a paedo, that's just to let you know how wierd i consider you aswell

Chairman was not trying to make you feel guilty - he was implying there is cum in the mayo.

Just talk to the landlord, make it clear that his son is sexually harassing you, and if it doesn't stop, you will break the lease and bring him up on charges. Be sure to document everything.

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what tink said

I'm sorry but it seems to me that he's just trying to make you a friend Lytias. If he doesn't know that he is creeping you out, how can he change?

what relts said

www.myspace.com/muzzzz

www.myspace.com/arterysheffield

www.dangerouslyclose.co.uk

so if he's not trying to make me feel guilty, surely he attempts to make me more paranoiac, not nice at all chairman



but yeah, i will definitely clear up this situation

oh shit, rhb, did you not read what i wrote, there is been several-i should even say- constant history of these incidents since i moved in
and i definitely made it clear with him that i was not interested for even a friendship...
some of these incidents are well wierd, believe, he's sexually hassling me

and he well knows that he's creeping me out


you seem to have no idea what perversion is, rhb

if you love him, tell him you love him

RHB is an innocent lamb, and doesn't recognize the wolf.

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does it really sound way out of order? don't know. tell him to respect your privacy, that's enough for now. did he ever try to touch you?

and that bit was funny. at least a bit:

"one other thing he constantly does is whenever i'm in the kitchen with him, he does some strange noises like 'mmm...' looking at me"

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But it's alright, Ma, it's life, and life only

yeah i mean if you've told him that walking in on you in your bedroom without knocking is unacceptable, and he continues to do it, then that's not a good roommate.

www.myspace.com/kcamosy

it always amuses me how lytias often gets offended by .org's least offensive poster (rhb)

I wish people would stop calling me inoffensive. I regularly threaten to murder people!

You're just so adorable when you threaten to kill.

*pinches RHBs cheeks*

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i cant believe i have been missing all this comedy gold on here by looking over at 10dp


hey lytias you should come over to www.network54.com/forum/391269


there are loads of folk over there who would be friendly and help you out

they might seem a little off with you at first but just stay with it they will come round to you




fucking awesome

is this the same mental flatmate that came into your room with a boner? there was a thread some weeks ago, wasn't it?

in the middle of that thread:

http://www.network54.com/Forum/188020/thread/1214319607/What%27s+the+opposite+of+a+%26quot%3Bgrower%26quot%3B-

i feel weak


i just need to meet real people and get less on the internet

altough i might give 10dp a try later if they're really nice

theyre really nice lytias they have lots of social drinks and get togethers

thanks for your support

thanks for your support in 2008



is this right?

Drinks tonight , traffic 5pm

traffic is so 2007 you little pleb

Lytias you should read richskaras post again, hes not trying to do a good thing, he wants to laugh at you.

i am actually not it is more about pissing off 10dp

i think lytias is quality shame people are arses to her

i would talk to her on 10dp i just cant be arsed coming on this place

Fucking hell.

Another great one straight from the Skara comedy handbook. Comic genius.

Shes met some of them, they didnt get pissed off.

SYHTFOLT

^^^^^is this right.

Oh i am glad.

something's not right with you guys...

either you're ready to help me, either you're not



i haven't got the energy to enjoy this as a joke


i' m off for a while

do you have any other flatmates or is it just him you're living with?

yes, one other flatmate who's really nice and comprehensive. he just phoned the landlord.
but he's leaving saterday for 10 days so i'm very scared.


end off lucy, we can send ourselves messages on myspace if you want.


i don't want to be part of a sordid 'joke'

lytias at the end of the day if this guy is doing what you say he is doing just look for a new flat and if the landlord says you are in breach of contract just threaten to go to the cops over his son and says that he had rubbed his cock up you or something

don't ask people on here to fix your problem for you, sweetie. you won't get any help, plus as someone who moved to london and pays rent for their room, you are responsible to sort it our yourself. call the landlord. it's absurd to be scared in your own home, so sort it out before it gets any worse.

failing that get camosy round to sleep with the horny little devil that will solve the problem

:)

haha what can i say? i like to do my part for society. :)

This is one of the most pathetic things I have ever read. Sort yourself out and get some mates.

Re: My flatmate just walked straight into my room
Score 5.0 (1 person) July 17 2008, 10:43 PM

This is one of the most pathetic things I have ever read. Sort yourself out and get some mates.


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