People,

I can't believe this shit! Kali is supposed to be about queer asians coming together in a place where they can be safe from the fascists that drive us into the underground. You're poisoning its message and ruining it for yourselves. Kali's about being free and uninhibited but you've clearly misunderstood what that means. We should be protecting each others 'izat' not slandering. There's enough slandering and unacceptance from the rest of the world, to make us think twice about doing it to each other. We've pretty much all had the same fears and problems being gay, coming out whatever.... You all seem so bitter and tormented, but as your brother, I can gaurantee that hating your own is like hating yourself and it will bring you no peace...

Well said, I have to agree with you on all of the points that you made.

I will mention that at the end of the day, we're all Asians and that's what Asians do best - bitch. It's what we all grew up doing and hearing, so obviously we're never going to stop doing it regardless of the consequences.

Makes us all a bit thick really! Hahaha!

I have to disagree, I am Asian and yes I grew up hearing a lot of bitchiness but that hasn't made me bitchy. I know there are others like me.

I am so sick of these nasty messages. If we just say 'oh well, we were bought up with bitchiness so let's just carry on with it...', nothing is going to change. We are gay Asians and we should be proud of it. Let their world see how great we can be not let a few sad fuckers represent us.

Anyone else agree?

I have to disagree, I am Asian and yes I grew up hearing a lot of bitchiness but that hasn't made me bitchy. I know there are others like me.

I am so sick of these nasty messages. If we just say 'oh well, we were bought up with bitchiness so let's just carry on with it...', nothing is going to change. We are gay Asians and we should be proud of it. Let the world see how great we can be not let a few sad fuckers represent us.

Anyone else agree?

Yeah Pinky you are right in what you said. Well done X