Ugh, ugh, ugh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am so sorry you are going through this. I don't have any advice (thought Dawn's post was VERY good), but please know we all support you 1000% here!! I know I've seen similar advice about getting a lawyer ASAP (or consult with several top firms so then they cannot rep your so-calledDH) as you can always cancel the lawyer if/when things work out. Try to busy yourself in the practical stuff like getting a lawyer and bank stuff to protect yourself (I think a lawyer will probably know the drill)...it will keep you mind busy and be productive if you should need it.
Personally, I'd have a very hard time trusting again after a long-term emotional & physical affair. Especially when the deception continues even when "coming clean". But, I know of people who have gotten past it (but as someone mentioned above, friends still think the DH is a #$%#).
So, so, sorry to read this post. UGH! Please keep us posted and let your BB family know if there are any bits we can do to help....
huge hugs,
Minna
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