The basic premise is that men like to pursue and if we don't let them, they lose interest. So, keep your life busy and full and make the man think it is even busier and fuller!
This leads to rules such as:
Never accept a date for Saturday night after Wednesday.
Never call a man and only return his calls now and then.
Never stay on the phone for more than 10 minutes.
Always be the one to end the date.
Never go away for more than a weekend until you are engaged.
Never bring up "where the relationship is going" until the man does.
It's different from the books about why bitchy women get the men. It is not at all about being bitchy. Sweet as can be and easy to be with and fun, just living a full and happy life rather than rotating around said man.
Although some of the rules may seem a bit much, I do like the idea of living a full and happy life that does not rotate around a man (who, at least for the moment, does not yet rotate his life around you)! All much easier said than done!
Of course, this is just my take on it. Certainly, it can also be read in a way that is quite offensive to many!
me:smc (single mom by choice)
Dd: Conceived when I was 42 after 2 years ttc. Conceived on 6th IVF cycle after 2 bfn's and 3 m/cs.