...although I know you're feeling so terrible now that you can't see that happening anytime soon. I had a little falling out with my own MIL and thought the same thing. But time does heal the hard feelings--on both sides. And circumstances necessitate families getting together, whether they want to or not. It helps to act cordial even if you don't feel it. I think if you take the high road,and "let it go," you'll eventually feel that way, too.