I am only replying this way because it seems like everyone is on the same page. I appreciate EVERYONE for taking the time to reply and it has helped me a lot. I was actually thinking the very same things!
We will definitely do cupcakes for the entire class. Last year I did a goody bag for everyone but, I am not sure I will do that this year because of the expense of this years party. In years past we only did family parties and they weren't so expensive.
My only trick now is to get the addresses of all students. They won't give them out at daycare. But I can usually find stuff like that on white pages because I do know most of the parents names and generally area they live in.
Thanks again o' wise ladies! You are the best. I am very excited for this party because it is her first friends party. I just hope it all goes fairly smooth. I love her gymnastics academy and so does she, so I am sure it will......but I feel like I am having prom night jitters!
Love to you all!!