I was thinking about you when I read that post and I didn't reply as I felt it was too loaded! Although, I don't have a special needs child and probably, no truthfully, don't know what it's like, I'm on your side. It strikes me as odd, to say that the couple loves their daughter, but if they had known they would have terminated. Then trying to get money out of it is even stranger. It just doesn't add up, but then we are all entitled to our own feelings! You love your kids so much Willa and that's a beautiful thing! More power to you to stand up for DD!!