Dd hadn't washed her hair since September 5th. Tonight, with a promise of a big playmobil set from Elijah (I started out with Santa, but she'd have none of that, being as we're Jewish), ta-da, all squeaky clean.
And, the kicker, "mama, that felt so good" -- no sh*t sherlock!
Yes, in time it all works out (now, I hope she heard me when I said this was a most unusual event for Elijah, who usually only shows up on Passover, and not to expect a repeat performance from him next time...)
me:smc (single mom by choice)
Dd: Conceived when I was 42 after 2 years ttc. Conceived on 6th IVF cycle after 2 bfn's and 3 m/cs.