Thanks for your responses...
My mom had mentioned when it first happened that she would see about taking a week off from work to come and help out but hasn't mentioned it since. I am assuming it won't work with her schedule (she is a first grade teacher and she is rarely able to take off because of how it impacts her students). I was a little bummed but as a teacher myself, I completely understand.
I do have lots of girlfriends that will help with playdates and like I mentioned they have all stepped up to bring meals by at night so we don't have to worry about cooking.
My mom is sending me money so I can hire someone to do the basic cleaning a few times while I am off my feet. I don't know how I feel about that-it might be more stressful having someone in my house without being able to "pre clean" before they come
I am getting very antsy sitting around doing nothing. I should use this time to catch up on DD's scrapbook! i have all the pictures put together and organized, just need to put them on the scrapbook pages! At least this would be productive!