I don't have a lot of experience with the problem you're having. I was on bcp until my late 30s. But I have observed and read that being young is in your favor, and we've seen moms who went on to have more kids, even naturally, after ivf. I even read about a recent study in Europe that said that many women do conceive naturally after ivf, something like 25%.
I hope you'll get some good advice. There might still be some drs who will answer questions online. Dr. Wisot was one, and here's a link to his bb.
GL, and congratulations on your precious dd!
I also wanted to add that you might want to consult the secondary IF bb, too.http://www.network54.com/Forum/249538/
I never spent much time at Fertile Heart, but I've heard good things about it:http://www.fertileheart.com/
Keiki's Makuahine (Keiki's Mom) 51, dh 52
Keiki: b. 2002 after 3 months bedrest
Natural conception following ZIFT/chem. pg
Olivia: b. 1999 d. 1999
28-week preemie, ptl cause unknown
Natural conception after 1 mc
ttc since 1998