It really is surprising that she does have a weight issue, she is so active. She might be on the travel soccer team in the fall, she is a really great athlete, that will be very aggressive exercise for her. I try to just encourage healthy eating and have cut back on making desserts which I love to make. People, like my MIL, make comments on how heavy she looks, I hate that and don't want that for her. For work i decided to take a week off a month through the summer, hopefully that will be enough. Thank you for taking the time to write to me, I know you have a lot going on too.