post anonymously, b/c as a parent, that's info I'd want to have, too. And heck, you pay taxes, right? Escalate this, if you have time. Maybe you can even show that your ds's behavior is developmentally typical, and their teachers or counselors lack adequate preparation to work with children.
I know it's a lot of time and energy that maybe you don't have to give to this. I think I'd at least write a letter to the head of the recs dept.
Banned? OMG, a law-abiding taxpayer with a normal son? Not even a graffiti-writing vandal teenager?
That's the problem with these zero-tolerance policies. They scare and intimidate average, law-abiding citizens, and probably let the real baddies skate right through. I'm glad you all liked Montessori.
Keiki's Makuahine (Keiki's Mom) 51, dh 52
Keiki: b. 2002 after 3 months bedrest
Natural conception following ZIFT/chem. pg
Olivia: b. 1999 d. 1999
28-week preemie, ptl cause unknown
Natural conception after 1 mc
ttc since 1998