While I look the like of wood blinds, perhaps venetian would be even nicerJuly 9 2012 at 10:16 PM
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I am so sorry to read what you are going through. A coworker of mine went through a very similar-sounding story (found out DH was gay, and he continued to deny it even though she had proof) She found out that this is alot more common than any of us think. She eventually decided that she couldnt live with what she knew about this man and she got a divorce.
But it took time. And she did not hurry to the decision to divorce. She stayed in the house with him for quite a while, perhaps over a year or more? In separate rooms.... She went to a few attorneys who were recommended, and started planning. There was so much to think about, especially with children involved, and it took her time to pull it all together. She also had to get counseling for herself to help her through all of it.
It was really a tough thing to go through, but she had resolved in her mind that it was the right thing to do.
Only you can decide whats right for you and DD in the long run. BUt in the short run, Id get myself to a dr. and get checked, and at least go for some legal consultation so that youre well prepared. Just remember that you dont have to decide today....you can take all the time you need.
Do you have someone IRL you can talk to? This has go to be so difficult to go through alone...