Thank you all - group reply for nowJuly 10 2012 at 9:23 PM
|Sheby (Login Shelby123)|
Response to my opinion
Thanks for all the replies. You are all a wonderful group and I am lucky to be able to post here.
We spoke for a long time in several conversations since I would not speak with DD in ear shot of conversation - and went round and round and back and forth on the topic. He apologized and realized the mistakes and stupidity of his actions and how much it hurt me. I asked him how he would feel if the situation was reversed and I think that put things into perspective, not to mention taking this to a higher level besides just looking at a magazine/internet...etc...
Long story short, he said it wouldn't happen again and realizes that his life, my life, DD's life would a mess be due to his actions and said he would go to therapy hopefully we can find someone on insurance plan - which might not be possible - but have to investigate. He did realize how serious this is. I am still going to look into an attorney but since I am not working this adds to the problem. It's hard to get a job since I am SAHM and take DD all over to her places day to day... Maybe I have to find a job while she is in school once that starts in the fall and start preparing just in case....
I am home and am going to take some time to sort this out and start looking for a lawyer and therapist. I want DH to look into the therapist but not sure is going to follow through with it, but I am going to give him the chance to do it.
It;s so hard to make decisions like this, so I am not making any right now, I'm going to let things be for right now...
thanks for all the great thoughts and posts. It means so much to me.