Yes, you're right, I do resent him. This is how it has been since 1983.
I wasn't clear about the AC. The house is cool enough, but she goes around closing shades and turning off lights to keep the house cool and I can't see. The house is also cluttered so it's dangerous here in the dark!
I'm just going to have to shorten the visits. Meanwhile, dh did mention my back issues to her, but she still doesn't get it, so I'm going to hide during prep/clean-up time.
Thanks for your support.
Keiki's Makuahine (Keiki's Mom) 51, dh 52
Keiki: b. 2002 after 3 months bedrest
Natural conception following ZIFT/chem. pg
Olivia: b. 1999 d. 1999
28-week preemie, ptl cause unknown
Natural conception after 1 mc
ttc since 1998