For getting your DD speech therapy. It can only help! That testing isn't stressful at all, right??? (LOL, can't stand those test, urgh!!) It's so hard not to think the worst, at least that's how it is for me when I think something's wrong. I'm glad your DD passed, ultimately.
I guess they will always be our babies. But when people were saying that to me recently about Z, I was totally trying to picture how I'd feel if I didn't do anything, then looked back with regret when I he REALLY wasn't a baby anymore and was still exhibiting these issues.