If I may interject, and i think i have the right!!
A lot of what you guys have mentioned is the absolute truth, but i dont think that you can pinpoint one thing and say that it is for that reason. Are YOU THREE involved as much as some of the other people that you are pointing at? Im not sure who everyone is, so this is not personal.
I live at this church, it is 10:20 pm on Saturday, and I am here now working. This church is my life! There are others as well... Victor, Katrina, Brian, Paulette, Veronica, Omar, Waymon...everyday we are working or planning for this youth ministry. Before you look at leadership and notice what we are not doing i think it is important to look at yourself. Are yall as involved in the planning of events as the people i mentioned? Are yall putting in the hours that these people I mentioned are? I dont think so...(i can tell by your comment about us 'trying to do everything bigger and better' that you really are not that involved in what goes on around here.) I am not attacking anybody, but what yall have to know is that we are still putting in the hours, more than we ever have...but we need yall as our young adults to be there! Why would younger teens want to come if we cant get any of yall to stay late on a friday night?
There is so much more involvement required to operate on the level where we are as opposed to where we were, and those who have been involved still are but we are looking to yall to step up.
But jus so yall know....with this big step everyone that used to only have to focus on Youth Ministry is dealing with a whole lot of stuff on their plate right now....and doing what i see as a VERY GOOD JOB!
-chase