An interesting issue was raised in the topic about the slipper book. Two people mentioned that their partners do not know that they post to this board. Why should they be secretive about it? I can understand that many would not admit to their partners that they visit porno sites, but there is nothing pornographic here. It would be interesting to know which other posters have/have not told partners of their visits to this site.

I do not have a partner, but I regularly view and discuss this forum with friends of both sexes. It is informative and entertaining and one of the best message boards on the web.

DD

My wife knows about the forum & knows a couple of interesting things about me that shouldn't be revealed just yet.

But she doesn't know about my past, as frequently posted here!

I'm afraid she just finds the notion boring-but what else would you expect from a girl who managed to get one detention in her entire school career-for forgetting her DS apron & substituting her chemistry one for it?

Talk about the sort of misdemeanour that makes the sun fall out of the sky because it's so heinous!


Steve M

I am a total fetishist. My wife and I are particularly into the school scene and this forum we read together and have picked up some good ideas with experimenting with the cane, strap, slipper etc.

To all those who have not shared their interest with their partners I say - go on tell them. Your lives will be richer once you enter the wonderful world of corporal punishment.

Whats right for one couple is not necessarily right for another couple. My Wife knows of my interest in school corporal punishment but has no interest In it herself. what possible reason would she need to know, its not as if I'm Being unfaithful.

DD, my wife is aware I am a member of a forum, she just doesn't know which one and I prefer to keep it that way.

My reasons for this are not what you may think. My wife and I have been married for nearly thirty years and do things together and do not keep secrets from each other.

As my career is in the hospitality field and because I was born in September, my wife considers me to be a perfectionist, as most Virgo's I know are. I am a very self critical person and I do tend to be hard on myself. Just part of my make-up I guess.

When it comes to my school day's, I am both angry and ashamed. I have written quite a few posts here about my schools and I have never discussed this topic with my wife. She is totally oblivious to the treatment I received at school. Some memories are best left in the back of the mind gathering cobwebs. I don't consider I am holding a secret from her. She is 7 years younger than I and I was brought up in a different state and era to her. She doesn't talk about her school days either, except on one occasion she said to a friend she had been hit on the back of the legs by a teacher when she was in High school. I overheard her telling her sister-in-law and I have never asked about it because I would not like to be asked about something of that nature.

I am a member here because there are quite a few people who had similar experiences to me. I find most people on the board genuine and respectful and I have gained a good friendship with a fellow member who lives in the UK.

I think that the people here, and I speak about the majority, are decent folk who just want to discuss the events in their school lives for a multitude of reasons. Some just want to get things off their chests and what better way than to do it here where their identity is kept anonymous.

Sure, we do get people who like to spin a story or two, and one or two who should be posting elsewhere but the body and soul of this group are using the forum as an information resource-to identify with others about school life and to discuss their current opinions of the education system.

I am an outsider-I found that most members are British but I also found I was welcome when I posted my topics.

A long winded response DD, I know, because I'm a chatter box at times! but I hope it gave you the information you seek.

Mike.

Mike, To feel as bitter and resentful as you obviously do towards the Teachers from your schooldays they must have treated you very unfairly. When I was at school and I broke the rules I was punished. (Only twice with Traditional C.P.) The rest was slaps across the face. Once I was hit so hard On my head it knocked me out of my chair and into the next row of desks. I Was very defiant and wilful, but I never thought I was treated unfair. Unless I was conditioned to think that way. Your teachers should feel very Ashamed of the way they have made you feel.