Being new to the forum, I don't know if this is a overly discussed point. I was reading an entry from a while back about people in dreams, and the subject of sex came up. I find that in the early morning I am most often close to lucidity. Problem is, at that moment I grab my chance, and the nearest girl in my dream. At awakening I often realise that I let a great chance at exploring my dream go to waste. I'm not judging myself, but I think it's possible that libido and probably morning erections stand in the way of exploring lucid dreaming. The few times that I remembered to control myself and actually TALK to the girl in front of me immediatly paid of in a less predictable storyline and a more vivid dream. I bet this problem is a guy-thing, and that I'm not the only one. Although I may be the only one to regard fantasy a problem :), but you know what I mean. Any attempt to force a dream to take a certain turn results in a more predictable, and hence less interesting, dream, especially if it becomes a habit. Reactions anyone?
no there is nothing weird about this... I gotta say I have explored the lucid world alot, and probably about more then half my experiences finally ended up getting laid =)
I mean, ask a guy his whish or dream while he is awake, you will probably get some sort of sexual answer. So when LDing, it is the time and place to make your dreams come true. Enjoy it, There is nothing wrong about it.
But I do suggest trying other things, there is so much joy to be discovered in your LD, other then just SeX.
Like Have you tried flying yet? Almost every single lucid dream I have had I Fly. Hell try having sex while flying,, haha! that could be fun.
Just take your time, every experience is great, you have a lifetime of dreaming ahead of you.
yeah, i've only had about three lucid dreams so far, but the first I grab the nearest girl and had sex, the second I ran down the sidewalk and started flying, the third I grabbed a girl and kinda blended the two, it was pretty cool, but i still wish I could do other things in my lucid dreams
maybe you can devote an entire dream to just having sex with different girls you like or whatever, that way you can do other stuff in your other dreams. Like next time your lucid, just say to yourself youll have sex in the next dream. It will be motivation to go lucid also. although when i start to go lucid more oftne ill probably just go out looking for a girl the entire time at first, but after like....100 times ill move onto more important objectives. Well ok maybe like 50.
I feel just like you. I had only a few lucid dreams and many of them ended up in orgies. I feel like i'm wasting the opportunity of getting deeper in my dream world but it's the first impulse i have when i'm lucid.
Only when i dream about things that scares me i can change the subject without turning into sex.
how come i wasnt invited to your sickend dream orgies
you stank whore of a superman weggy
go suck an african american enlarged cock
if i knew you were gonna waste all of are time with a great sex story with no detail
i would have went ahead with my original plan of sticking razor sharp pins through my shriveled up stinky nut! now FUCK OFF piss ant...
Why don't you follow the advice in "Mind of the Married Man" and just "jerk it out"! That means masturbation, if necessary, before going back to sleep so you won't be so obsessed or distracted by sex in your lucid pursuits. In "There's Something About Mary" a quote is made that immediately after an orgasm a man thinks most like a woman. That's a quote said in jest, yes, but nevertheless it is true. After you have satisfied your sexual cravings, the world takes on a whole new perspective(for the time being until the desire returns). Post orgasm, as we lie there with the afterglow of sexual gratification and transfixed smiles, sex is temporarily de-prioritized allowing you to focus on other concerns.
On the subject of sex, and experiments. There is something that happened to me in a Non lucid dream that could be a good one.
If you dream that you are having sex, look away and befor you look back try and imagine a differant person. I will be trying this as soon as a go lucid, It acctualy happened to me in a non lucid
If you are lucky enough to have sex enough in real life , i would think you could use it as a reality check. Look away or close your eyes when you are with your wife/girlfriend/misstress. Imagine someone else, and when you look if it is the same person, and you are having sex. It is real . If it is someone else you will know you are dreaming, and therefor might go lucid.
The reason i say this is , i have had many dreams about sex, but i have never done a reality check while having it. I think now just by talking about it. If i do have a dream about having sex i will do a reality check and will go lucid. I hope. Good luck , have fun
I have yet to explore sex in a lucid dream. Usually I get wrapped up in some other activity (flying, ranting "This is a dream!!" at people etc) before I can find a woman to... do stuff with.
Also I get the impression lucid dream sex is a very very difficult skill to master, in that it will wake you up unless you can stay relatively calm.
Mind you, I do remember once having a lucid dream where I saw perhaps the two most attractive females ever... I looked away to compose myself, looked back and they were gone. And I was only going to invite them over for tea and biscuits!
Here's an idea: has anyone said in a lucid dream "Through this door will be the single most attractive person ever"? In effect, a dream-lover? Heheh... could be worth a shot.
Well...first of all i doubt that doing it by yourself will prevent you to have less sex dreams.
This is why:
I have been having allot of problems with lds...couldnt get them so often that i wish for.Then i met(lucky my,its not to show off just to make a point) 2 really nice girls which made me run from one to another and having so much sex i couldnt believe im capable of doing it.
Anyways being sexually completely exhausted i had 3 lds in a week and all those 3 were sexuall.They all ended up in an orgasm so real i was confused if it wasnt for real(sfter switching light on i noticed they werent real:)
So- do it do it and do it!!!!!
Dont know how and why but it helped so much i felt a need to share that with you.
Just remember to do it on 100 percent-like you were on the edge of heart attack:)
Good luck
