In a large house some of it is renovated and some of it is derelict the derelict areas are huge smelly and dusty..Iam in the basement packing huge apples into boxes which keep beimg stolen by pixie looking small things I know that this is going to happen but cannot stop it wake up feeling frightened, frustrated and agitated. please help this recurs 1-2 times a month

you wake up feeling stressed and agitated....
Ok, this is a recurring stress dream, basically you are trying to save/harvest something and something else is picking away at it.

Expand on that and you have an explanation, you then need a solution to the problem - you may have to take action to prevent whatever is eroding your 'savings' by saying NO or setting limits on what you will put up with. When you say you try to stop it, what do you do, exactly? its not working, so maybe you need to put your 'apples' where no-one can get at them to erode your progress.

If you are just a habitual worrier, (no offence, I was, sometimes still do but I recognise now when I am doing that) then you need to address the issue THROUGH the dream, as you are falling asleep think about hte actions in the dream then envision yourself putting the completed boxes in a secure place to thwart the pixie. In waking life, you need to learn to speak up a bit, possibly. It is hard to do at first, but soon enough you will be very comfortable speaking up to let people know when they are pushing you or taking advantage. Hopefully my perspective on this helps you.