My cousin died 2 yrs ago. We were close in life when we were young children. i moved away with my parents but it was like we had this spiritual bond. Even though we didn't spend our whole lives together growing up i felt extremely close to him. we were both born the same year he was born in april and i was born in july. in 2000 i had a baby boy in july and he had agirl in april. our lives have always been strongly spiritually connected. i recently moved back to where we grew up and i find myself having very vivid dreams with him in them. they are very normal its just like we are hanging out and talking and he is alive. i never had dreams about him before i dont know why i started all of the sudden.Even though he has been gone 2 yrs i feel this strong bond.is this him coming to me in my dreams or just an overactive imagination? these dreams feel so real when i wake up i kind of wonder for a minute if i had actually spoken to him. if anyone has any thoughts on why the dreams all of a sudden.and what they mean? please let me know
research your family history, you will probably find twins that died in infancy, and that would now be you guys on the 2nd time around....sorry he has passed though, he is probably trying to contact you to tell you that he has found out that you are connected, that he is ok and that he either wants you to watch over his child or/maybe he has something else to tell you....take a nap in a quiet room with no disturbances and focus on letting him speak to you....he will tell you or show you in a dream what is on his mind right now....
that is weird that you say that about twins i have always had that feeling. i had this dream a few months ago that there was a child that died but it was weird because it was my twin in the dream but nobody had told me the baby had died and i found out and showed up at the babys funeral saying how come nobody told me over and over then i woke up. it was very disturbing. thank you for your input on my dream. it is nice to be able to tell someone. my family wouldnt understand. thank you.
the drummer from nirvana who is dave grohl.. still has conversations with the dead singer kurt cobain, in his sleep.
as do i with a few dead relatives and friends...
I strongly believe when you sleep your body shuts down and goes on stand by providing more power to low matinence to the body. This means that the mind is actually working less so that the mind can then boost it's power thus making us much more telapathic than when we are awake.
when we are awake our minds are cluttered with every day tasks, etc.
when I sleep i have made a few prminitions of things that have happened... but also have chatted to friends and relatives like i said before. Your not alone an if any one else fancies chatting more about this.. let me know I would like to talk more about this!
Hello Dark Spider,
I'm new to the web and have just read one of your messages to somebody. I'm quite new at this so dont know whether this message will get there or not.
I'm quite telepathic. I dream a lot about my Aunty, who passed on years ago, she gives me messages all the time for myself and for my family and friends, its like i'm really there and I get this overwhelming feeling of love!(get the sick bucket!) I have great conversations with her although sometimes I dont understand what she means. I'm also very intune with my sister, Sally, we dream the same dreams everynight and when we are at work (we are nurses) when there are patients dying we get the same Dead relatives come to us to let them know everything will be okay. Wierd!!
Also, one other i'm very telepathic with, is my on/off boyfriend, Mark. Ive known Mark for 15 years, and we are true soulmates, he comes and talks to me in my sleep, the feeling is so strong, he tells me everything in my dreams, a lot of the time they are quite upsetting as I dont really want to hear what he has to say. Hes told me hes suicidal (we lost our baby to stillbirth 2 years ago and its screwed us up, thats why its on/off) he comes to my crying and I cuddle him and tell we can work it out, although the other day he told me something else that wasnt nice. All of these are in my dreams and when I tell him, although hes usually sceptic, they are usually about right.
Thanks for listening xx
how wonderful a gift he has given you to say hi let you know he's ok to keep the bond you shared before, just accept it take comfort from it and listen. your sence of awarness of things about you will be more attuned now so pay them heed, if you hear a wisper pay attention. you have not mentioned about his laughter, did you think you imagined it ?
I get these also-Mostly from my grandmother-also from 2 friends who have passed. I believe some bonds are not broken even in death-pay attention to these dreams-some of the dreams from my grandmother in particular has given me information about things to come-and spirtual instructions as well. I have been having these dreams for over 1/2 my life and I find the predictions I am given to be very very accurate. Maybe keep a dream journal to help you remember things-and perhaps you would want totry meditation or prayer to help stimulate the correct mind set. I think it is a blessing-Good Luck!
Dear Krissi,
I am sorry to hear about your cousin, even though it was two years ago, death is never hard to deal with even after a number of time has gone past. My cousin died almost eight years ago (25 january), and we were the best of friends. he was my bestest friend in the whole wide world. I live in australia and he lived in portugal (i was born there too), and I have only seen him every so often when i went over there for holidays, but we always wrote each other letters. we had a connection too. he was the first male to ever say i was beautiful and intelligent. i have never forgotten those words. never. they mean so much to me. almost so much more than when my boyfriend of 8 years tells me. but anyway, over a short amont of time before his death, we began to fall for one another. we never told each other this. i found out about his feelings after he had passed from my grandmother. still to this day, she keeps asking me to tell her that i felt the same way about him (i have never confirmed for fear of my parents). he is one death that i have never gotten over, and i am in tomrnet i think is the right word, becuase before his death we had a silly disagreement and i have carried it with me for so many years. last year i went overseas for a holiday and asked my auntie (his mother) to give me a photo of him. i carry one in my purse, and the other is on my wall, beside my pillow, so i face him when i go to sleep. i have dreamnt a few times of him, and i have seen him many times. i know, that in my heart i truly do deeply love him (sorry to gross anyone out, lol), but i feel he is my true soulmate but we were never meant to be together, only as cousins. my father would have put a stop to it, he has said so. Filipe (thats his name), turned 21 on 5th january, and died 20 days later from a brain haemorrage. This anniversary i will go to church and pray for him. i think of him all the time, he is always in my thoughts. my boyfriend only knows, that Filipe was my bestest friend in the whole wide world, he doesnt know i had deep feelings for him. i can't tell him that, that would upset him. he wouldnt understand. i remember one time, i was sleeping, and i felt a strange strong energy in my room, i opened my eyes, and saw a young man clear as day, smiling at me, standing beside my bed, holding my hand, caressing it, he kissed it, and i closed my eyes and fell back asleep. it felt so real, and i have never forgotten it, like i will never forget - Filipe.
Take care, love and blessings.
Sorry, put wrong message in wrong place before, so now i'll reply properly!
I think its wanderful that your cousin keeps in touch with you in this way, its always devastating when somebody dies and although nothing can ever take that pain away, how great it is that you can 'keep in touch', so to speak, and hopefully as time goes on, it'l get more frequent and think of it as still having that special bond with your cousin, even though they arent around in life form, they are still around in spirit form, and not everybody is as lucky as you to be able to have this experience.
My baby boy (Luke) was stillborn 2 years ago. Since then, i've actually seen him appear to me while I was awake with my Aunty (passed over). He was gorgeous and looked a lot like his older brother Ciaran, whos 3 1/2, he waved at me. I then dreamt that he came to me and kissed me on the face and said 'I love you mum', then he said 'happy birthday' I could'nt understand what that meant until I realised that a fewweeks before that dream his dad and I had taken some birthday presents up to his grave, a big blue teddybear and a card and loads of flowers, he was just reminding me that he had received them. I will never get over losing my baby, as you wont your cousin, you just learn to deal with it, but as I said, we are very blessed that they love us enough to come and visit and that we have that channel, not everybody is so lucky, which is a shame really.
