ok, its dream week, I am on a different part of the planet, so I dream every night.....

last night i dreamed - me, my father, my brother were getting ready to take a plane journey, no one could get thier stuff ready on time, I was ready, each of thenm had some stupid delaying thing to do, I was starting to panic that we would miss plane, theywere procrastinating and then making us late. We never got to the airport, I woke up.

FYI my father is dead, we never spoke, we never spoke int eh dream, (he hardly ever is in my dreams-though he did show up in night before 9-11, not a nice experience, very scary) this was normal getting ready in silence stuff from him, brother also no communication, I dreamed last month that he was on a plane with great turbulence, I dont like to think we are all on the same JOURNEY cos dad is dead (multipel cancers), brother has had kidney surgery and I have a recurrent pain in my side......

Just on the dream, what do you think?

hi neesoj, my feeling is this either you have an appointment you shoulden't miss or you should go see about the pain in your side and keep that.

while responding just popped into my head the phrase the thorn in my side, maybe somone close never runs on time and you dread having to make dates/ appointments with them and having to wait.( i have a relative like that whom i oftern have this saying with)

Have you had contact with him recently?
It must be troubling for you that he keeps appearing in your dreams, especially the last one with your father present. You must make contact, if you haven't,if only for peace of mind, surely YOU can see that. Like Prowess said it wouldn't hurt to get yourself checked out while your at it.

ETx

i am going to doc next week, he will tell me it is nothing as usual, i will make a fuss and tests will be negative, but hey, gotta knw for sure...too many mai-tai's is the usual prognosis.....

Dont know what he deal is with brother, for some reason I erased his email, cant tell U why, I just go with my feelings....I will try thru Mum (at possibly great emotional cost....) here we go again....
I am on two planes tommorow....back to Chicago from Hawaii....oh yeah....