hi peeps any 1 got any ideas on what this dream is trying to tell me? all ways the same theme where there is two men after me, they either are burgling my house and i disturb them then they try to catch me and i know if they catch me they will rape me, or they find me in my bed whilst burgling the house and attempt to rape me, i always manage to escape leaving them in my house. and always when i escape i know my house mate will be home from work soon. and in the dream i have no way of alerting her to the danger waiting in the house thats where the dream always seems to end where i am trying to find help. have had reacuring dream themes before and always alerting me to something but its not until later after the events i can see the big picture an my intuition warning me. have a few ideas on what dream may be trying to comunicate to me but would appriecate any input or interpatations from you peeps. what do ya think???????? lisa x

themes that are common fears for women, and well justified unfortunately. Quite simple, tell your roomie waht you dreamed, tell her it is just a fear, but for precautions you want to improve the locks, the windows, etc, program phone for one push emergency call etc, keep a pen and paper here an dthere around the apt, so if you have to write a note in an emergency you can, etc. Could be paranoia at play, could be premonition, either way, subconscious is trying to tell you to be more careful and take precautions as most sensible women would. HOwever, even women that take selfdefense and do everything experts say can still be a victim on occasion. Its jsut one of the craps of life that sometiems comes to pass. HOpefully, just paranoia, right/ prevention is better than cure later...

Hi Neesoj prob just is a touch of paranoia,but i also have a feeling it is linked to a sexual encounter or in some way trying to communicate something connected with sexual issues, not too sure what? thanx for ya input anyway will keep ya posted. x

Fear, sex and fear again all bring up the same adrenalin, so unfortunately the thrill of fear could also connect with sex in your mind. Next thing you know you'll be looking up the word 'sado-masochism' just be sure of the meaning! yeah, sometimes when we are growing up our minds connect things in odd ways, leading to so many individual turn-ons etc.

There are people who cant enjoy sex unles it is against their will, in which case they can fool themselves that they have no choice, and so they are free to enjoy it without guilt. Doesnt really matter as long as no harm is done to others.

hi again neesoj, i dont think the dream is connected in the way you think i mean about fear an sex. ya made me laugh with ur s & m comment, have been thinking of havin an anne summers party, (wonder what they av in the s&M range lol)anyway back to the dream. Im thinking it may be trying to warn about the dangers of bringin strange men home an avin her wicked way with them, as this has happend twice. which is fine with me its her bussiness wot she does.an i cant judge as ive been pretty busy in the bedroom latley only i know all my conquests. but typin the dream out, an rereading it made me think, she is in a vunerable position. anyway wots even stranger i told her bout the dream an she too has had 2 dreams in the last week of two black devils chasing me an her around a housing estate, they never catch us but in her dream she always hides then tries to find me. maybe i will ask her to post it on here.

my first thoughts which werent clear to me at the time was something about the dangers/guilt about bringing too many men home, but I didnt express it properly I suppose, or the thought was so fleeting I thought it only pertained to myself (!) Anyhow, I think you've got the cause defined now....