When I met my old, boss he had jsut been married for 3 mths. We immediately became too close, one of his very first remarks was that 3mths was 'too soon to throw in the towel" !!!! We became too close. His wife could not get pregnant, she is over 45 and it was her sole goal and has now had invitro for the last 6 years (yup...) Theirs was a complicated relationship to say the least. Every time he mentioned her, he also mentioned divorce....i got a new job...it was too stressful to be anywhere near.....
We have kept in touch, just conversation, as there was a lot of feeling there. A few weeks ago, I dreamed that he was sad, there were two little kids there, running around,and he was telling me that he is going to marry the preschool teacher that was also in the dream.......
He just emailed me that his 50 yr old wife is finally pregnant with a boy......
I wonder if in the back of your mind you saw this man as someone who would never leave his wife yet would never be able to help cheating on her - were there others before you?
In the dream, like before, he was complaining and it is amusing that you put him with the childs teacher as if, once again, he couldn't help himself. Or maybe it was your way of sending him 'therapy' that would get him over his whinging.
Well, he's still with her and like you say "what will be..will be" Also it could be 'what is..is'
at the time, he said I was the only person he had cheated on her with, it was so soon after they married that we met and we kept out of each others reach for a year, then we couldnt help it. She turned a blind eye (it seemed) as her only interest was in getting pregnant...now she is.....I wonder if she will dump him and keep half of everything, or if something wil happen to her, and he wil wind up a single father,....or why the dream? the kids were 3-5 years old.....
there was another dream about two months ago that I saw him in a hospital bed, he looked totally dazed, and for some reason both myself and my husband were helping him.....he has given my husband work in the last year or so...to help me/us.
Sounds like you picked up on him, you must have thought a lot of him at that time and it sounds as though he still has a special in your heart. Its really difficult when theres an affair going on as a lot of the time there are real feelings going on. People always call the woman saying its her fault, and really its the mans as hes the one whose cheating. Ive done it and I really loved this man and it wasnt wrong, we eventually split with our partners and spent years together and were very happy, that is until our baby died, but you know all about that, we really were very happy together and we are very unhappy apart, not good, but neither can we be together at the minute, theres too much anger between us, as I say you must have cared a lot about him, love Michelle xxx
