I had a dream last night, I was in my home I lived in when I was a child, as soon as I walked into the house I could feel my dad was there even though I couldn't see him, I felt sorrow and happiness at the same time, and I danced with him. I have been having dreams of that house for a few months now, I felt like the house was haunted when I was a little girl.

Hi Debbie! is your father in the world of spirit now? because if he is then this is your father`s way of communicating/trying to make you sit up and take note that he is still around...i feel he`s been giving you these dreams of your old home as a memory link between the two of you and also as you`ve had feelings/knowledge of the house being haunted when you were younger, it would make complete sense that your father would use this information/method to make contact with you! don`t be afraid, just trust when you feel him around you etc then you won`t put any blocks or barriers up, and then a clear channel can be made because he loves you and wants to be with you and wants you to acknowledge him. I have visitations off my grandfather alot he acts as a guide for me at times and he makes his msgs very clear whilst i`m asleep using symbols, movie like footage, and talking to me in my head, i`ve learned to trust everything he gives me and i`ve never been let down yet. all the best x

Seth, not for the first time has been this reference to "spirits" communicating to people in dreams, that is quite something! Now only yesterday someone told me they'd dream't of their father who in a boiler-suit had cried out "I've killed him" having driven his car (he did'nt drive!) into a gravestone - his own! Whats going on there?

Yes my dad passed away on christmas day of 98, when I went to his house he was in the restroom, so I told him I was going to visit my mother for a few minutes, they lived right next door to eachother, when I went back to my dads he came out of the restroom, he looked at me, then his eyes rolled back and he callapsed with a massive heart attack, I told my dad everyday that I loved him, but that day I didn't get to, he was only 53 when he died.

Awww Debbie i`m so sorry for you...it must have been such an emotional roller coaster, it would explain why your father has been trying hard to contact you, he knows that you love him and he wants your mind to be put at rest, and for you to leave behind the feelings of guilt and if only`s which have been following you around since his passing to spirit, if you sense him around you like a sudden coldness or chill then talk to him in your mind, he will be so thankful for you to acknowledge him, spirit try so hard to contact us which isn`t easy for them and we just ignore them unless we are aware of their ways, he will especially want to comfort you christmas day, be aware of him around you and the signs and coincidences you spot which will be his way of letting you know that he`s there. x