Men will never cease to hear it from their partner women that they need to be men and shed away insecurities. Taken from the context of women being the sum total of all humanity (as in man being in a woman who comprises womanity), the truth can never be so glaring. In truth, men are either straw men or tin men propped by women's platitudes.
Let's go back to Eden for instance. Adam was the only original mould that God set, out of which Eve was extracted. Yet, it didn't take long for Eve to run the ship and soon land Man Adam with every curse that man has to carry today. Eve's flirting with serpent led to humanity being alienated from God. And even today, daughters of discord are in the front line flirting with all and sundry and man has to step in and do the unthinkable.
Philosophised from the nurture of womanity, all life's insecurities can be borne. Women are the fakests of all beasts. They put on hair extensions and dye their hair and lighten their skins and put on stilettos to cheat about their height and wear undies and corsetts that hold in the burges and paste smiles on insincere faces and shed croco tears and fake climaxes and...
What is man expected to do when the same woman turns round and rails all her anger at him? He will shave all his hair and eye lashes just to be like her when her hair is a bad thatch that is covered with extensions. Man will eat all the bad things and punish himself pumping iron so as to be bigger and stocky like her. Man will steal and kill to live a life of granduer that he is not at par just to make the woman comfortable.
Yet, man is being rallied by the same woman to get a backbone and go out and fight Mike Tyson just because the woman wants some entertainment. Women can be a real pain in the arse just because of their built in insecurities.