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@Confused..I wrote to you jana. I basically told you that you should not listen to your rela...3 in a marriage is a crowd, who else shares your bedroom fellowship???. And I also queried the fact that her hubby in Jamu sleeps alone? I mean she is not there, is she?
I think the person you should speak to is your husband and ask him how he feels about you working shifts? he also does and by all means if you both are happy with the arrangement who else should have a say? he sounded like a good man to me and I think rela is either jealous of your material achievements or the matrimonial happiness. There is something that kills a relatiionship.....and that is listening to 'others'. Talk to him and watch his body language which in men speaks volumes as they are not very good at communicating.
Good luck.