I agree that marriage is very difficult and especially so in a foreign country like Britain.
I am however saddened and ANGRY by those who celebrate or actively participate when other peoples marriages fail or indeed lead to their failure. All those saying this is the UK where women have rights and such kind of rubbish. A woman worth her name doesnt need to be abroad to have her RIGHTS.
Every marriage break up is painful and difficult. It is especially so for the innocent ids who have to pay the price.
I am so pained and ANGRY by those who celebrate the break-up of other peoples marriages saying WE ALWAYS Knew IT WOULD HAPPEN.
Please those in marriages hold to one another and before you think that other woman is better will offer you better sex-or love or has a better BODY figure, think about the wife you have at home who could become THE ONE YOU WANT. For wives the promises of being taken out and NOT BEING TAKEN FOR GRANTED by backward KIKUYU MEN are only short term.
For those celebrating the break-up of others, please know that your day may come and on that day you shall realise those you thought were stupid were simply human.
I will pray for my fellow Kenyans abroad that the family may be spared the pain and battering it has so painfully endured.
For my close friend whose marriage broke sometimes back, know that I will pray for you and your wife. I hope you are able to reconcile and find the love that so dearly held you two together.
I will hope we shall meet again-with you both. May God bring the two of you back together and know I will pray for you TWO. For your lovely children - may they experience the love that only God can give.
For that man who has manipulated your wife, may our God show HIM the path of forgiveness that HE may turn from HIS ways. May your wife spot the trap that shes put herself into and come back home.
Finally for those who see nothing good in life, insult me. I am made better by criticisms-and insults.

Mine is breaking and when it started some people(men and women) accelerated it - telling the woman Huyo mtu anakusumbua kwa nini? Mimi ni single and I manage.....blah blahh..

Recently she held a party with other women to celebrate the news she conveyed to them that the marriage is definitely breaking and she already has a 'new' younger man. I wonder if a man who was sleeping with her while she was still married to me will ever marry her and trust her...

I just want to encourage those people whose partners leave them n go somewhere else where they "think "is better .Dont worry take courage cos look at the few examples of people you may know that have gone through the same problem .the partners who left for greener pastures r always miserable n guilt kill them why ireally don't know but it's a god punishment in a way.The people who cause marriages to break shall surely not go unpunished Mungu yuko nandariaga mbembe.Wait not for long cos utafanywa hivo hivo or even worse

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