I am still seeking 40yr old kenyan male. Please assist. If you leave your email I will respond. Please I really need a mature 40+ kenyan male to live my life with. Please must be over 40yrs+. I put the basic specifications in the link above.
This is a serious plea...no matusis etc. Thank You Misterseed for this forum.
The purpose of me posting this blog is to highlight there are three specifications that exist and mixing the three can create problems in relationships:
The first specification is the image of the person you have created in your head and clearly written on the post. That person does not exist because none of us own anybody. People are not properties or qualifications.
The Second specification is the actually image of the person as in their self image build since childhood and constantly changing with new experiences and knowledge. As in the person there are internally genuinely as in whom there are for sure right now. Everyone is unique and special in their own way.
The third specification is the view of the person from your own perspective or lenses as you stand right there at the moment given your current experience and situation. Most people do not see others as they really are; they see them from their experiences and understanding at that particular moment. for example if you currently have good trusting experiences you will trust people easily for now and if you are currently experiencing lies then you will doubt people and you will at first glance be doubtful of anyone you meet. Experiences shape the way we interact at any moment.
Having these three specifications instead of just the one of seeing someone as they really are; will set u up for conflict and disappointment in the long term since you will be trying to convert you partner and that never works as we do not own people.
I think it is better to give virtues from the heart; virtues such as love and acceptance and God returns this to you in terms of who you meet.
What you send out spiritually in terms of virtues comes back to you.
Material things come and go and without love in the long term pain comes regardless of the comfort created by material things. The virtue of love in the long term is better.
HOPE Thank u very much for your message. Its teaching as well as preaching. If you happen to open your church evening prayers prease count me in. I am 54 years old man living in London and i will let you know that God has given u wisdom. YOU are the best writer so I will give u ...good better Best.
You are not serious. Get counelling or say what you want. At 28 and looking for over 40, there is more to it. Kenyan girls as an example, go for white wazees for money, papers, or just the prestige of having a mzungu. I do not know what your motive is. I married a man 16 years my senior. Am 38 and turbo-charged while even MOT does not help him to match my speed. Am frustrarted in Bed.. We have differing capacities and speeds. we do not match...
My dear lady it looks as if you are self sufficient but you are not sure which type of a man you want. First at your age, six or four children are abate high number at this century you need two. Secondly you seem to need a man to give you children and keep you company but not to marry and settle with you plus you have very high authoritative rules for your man to be and a boundary in your incomes. May I tell you honestly that you will never get a man like you said because you have an attitude which no African man can stand. You are still young and I can a sure you that every man is born 40% lair to a woman so you will never get a perfect man. Either you decide to be a lone and get sperm donor for children or you think twice but there is one problem at your age of 28, this is the time you need sex more and if you miss it you might develop a high-parternia. This is a dangerous type of depression which turn a woman a sex maniac that you can have sex with anyone or anything anywhere dear and you might end up with HIV. If you want to contact me do so by giving your contact.
Thanks and be save.
Okay i have always wondered why do black people crave for attention,....why I hate that =balotelli guy he plays footbal for Man city he is ugly black guy really hideous guy,i iwudnt go near the guy if i was a gal,but he think he is cool craving attention and being obnoxiouis ,are black people obnoxiouis and loud,do we have to compensate for our blackness that we have to be loud and attention seeking monkeys,why do we shout when we can speak nice and softly,why do we dress like whores especially women,do we have to impress white people?i have seen a very young black gal she is like 15 years old she was dressed in very tight sexy tights her panties can be seen they were purlple thongs shamesticking out in her tights,i saw them panties and told her nice panties and she laughed ,oh boy i wish i cud stick my cock up dher ***,yes i wud love to **** her i dont give a **** she is a minor,she is presenting her pussy to everyone to see,shame on her shame on her mother iam sure she doest know her dad,why are black people so naive? do we have to worship white people ? i hate Balotelle i hope the ugly mutt get racial abuse in today game go England
I believe in the brotherhood of man, all men, but I don't believe in brotherhood with anybody who doesn't want brotherhood with me. I believe in treating people right, but I'm not going to waste my time trying to treat somebody right who doesn't know how to return the treatment