it pains when my spouse abuses me because she sees another man and wants to part. I do not depend on her at all but she looks around and sees single women and say 'if they manage, I will...' But what pains me is leaving my children to be brought up by a single mum. Whether she gets another man or the 'Council' or 'Police' husband, or a 'total man' that is not the father of the children and they will never get the real fatherly love...They will miss something in their lives forever. I am just hanging on to see my children attain maturity At that point, she can part ways...
@ Miserable husband how did you know that she compares herself to other singles? So have you started reading her mind? A man is recognised as fatherly figure by his actions, that is by treating his wife and kids like there is no tomorrow.Do you know why she compares herself to the rest of the singles? Are you the type of the man who is just a man by words but contributes or adds no value to their life?If thats the case are you need to get a life and put this into ya thick brains, no matter where you go even if you are lucky to marry VICTORIA BECKHAMS ,that will be the NORM OF THE DAY, no woman likes CABBAGES who just eat and do nothing, WIBARABARIE tiga mukio muingi.
Could be the above song be the reason why ya wife thinks that she can make it by self?? Niuramuhuthira uru??withuthurie muthuri uyu umenye kana niguo ureka!! MACOKIO nimaku,runga mithiire!!!
This is a load of PISH!! And Who told you just cause you produced a life, the children cant grow without fatherly figure? A father is RESPONSIBILITY not A SPERM DONOR!! How many kids are brought up by stepfathers and they grow up happy! The way you treat their mother plays a role in those kids life,you take it or leave it! No kid can see his or her mother in agony caused by another and defend the other, it sometimes happens but in rare cases and thats when they are in their tender ages. But when they grow up,which is the most CRUCIAL part, you will be MISS OUT BIG TIME if you dont change.. How many of us grew up in the most dreaded enviroment but when you start WEIGHING between the PROS and CONS ,your MOTHER will always WIN, No matter what. You are just arrogant and selfish as you cant imagine another playing ya role, Yet i did not read anywhere you expressed the love of ya kids,Its YOU who will MISS OUT for the rest of ya life if you dont think fast, remember ya kids are still growing.
Ipersonally was brought up by a single mother after my mum went through alot.To be honest with you i did not miss out anything. We actually were very happy after my dad left us, My mother could SMILE AGAIN!!! Thats the best thing that has ever happened to me in my childhood. Are You moving out shall not affect them in anyway if you add nothing to their value, are you always there for them when they need you? Can your kids brag infront of others telling them how good their dad is by spoiling them with gifts or is it their mum who do all that.Do you drop and pick them from school ? do you suprise them when they are less expecting it? Do you plan your schedule and always put ya own family first?? Have you got time for your family or do you just pop in for few minutes then off you go to bed or you are either busy watching telly? Do you treat their mum in the right way,that the best gift you can give to a child, ask me ,and IKNOW from experience SO DO YOU know, if your own mother brought you up,.If you do all that then you deserve to be with ya kids.
It's such as shame when people respond to desperate pings with abuse, so I will not stoop that low. Rather, I offer you an alternative thought....you are doing your chilren more harm than good in staying in an unhappy marriage. And this thought is from a lone mother( I reject the terminology single as I did not single handledly conceive) to you. B.T.W: Also a product of a lone mother....
iI dont see why the woman would want to be single withou a reason. Maybe you dont share responsibilities and thats why she thinks shes better off herself.And according to the way you have phrased it, am assuming you are just there for the name DADI.But mate its a high time you pull ya socks as kids memory of time are vivid,.