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That bitterness you carry obviously caused you the marriage. I am happy that you saved the man loads of troubles by divorcing or accepting divorce. You said age is catching up and you may never have another child? You seem like no man will want to have a child with you even by accident..
Why bother changing children's names? Clever woman, for example, Wangari died while still using Maathai's name yet they divorced in the 1970s. Yet you want to go to the extent of even changing the childrens' names. For me, names do not matter but what will you tell them is the reason for changing names? That the man they call their father is not after all? Many women say such things after parting with the father of the children. Please do not punish the children psychologically..

And whats the big deal of kids calling another dad, if its him who takes care of them while their real dad is having some good times wit others... Do kids even know why they were called so and so, prove me wrong and ask them what name they would have preffered to be called and i bet every child has one, so trying to change kids names its quite easy, if you go wit their choices.Iwould rather call my kid after a 'gitaruru', than the kid growing up with a name i would hate to hear in my midst.

just shut up! why are you attacking her after hustling all alone for the kids? how about the dad who diserted them? am sure you are one of the useless men with kids everywhere just having fun while their mums are dying making the ends meet while the dads are free waiting to show up to the kids just when the mum has done everything. men are animals/ dogs.