hi watu wetu,anybody who knows how is wambui coping down there in kenya?l miss jamu like hell coz people talk,no fake smiles and stress.when you speak people understand you noting likes what,pardon me etc etc.l was brought up knowing a man is the head of the family,period.while here things are the other way round,my mrs is the head here coz,the house is under her name,she receive famiy credit as she work for 24 hours olny.she does pay for most bills as all the money goes into her account and l heip with my little income.l look hopeless even in the eyes of my kids while back home l was the breadwinner.thi distrees me alot and look like l am heading jamu.any advice please matushi welcome.
I find it unbelievable , that some men are useless as hell! why would a grown up man write this nonsense?? All they do is squander their wages out of greed but expect their partners who knows how to save and live upto her means to offer her money !! Watu walielevuka but i guess the person who suits you best is the villager wambui huyo haelewi irio kana iteo,so that can make a great couple.So whats keeping you here??ungania korogochi ciaku n go back!! nani analia!!
I'm disgusted by men who try to reach for benefit and taxi credit money. Your wife takes care of your kids and works few hours. You think the government gives them money for free??? If the government recognises that mothers/single fathers need help, why can't a husband do the same?
Hi bro,have you ever tell her how you feel.if no is your forght.i have read your ping & trust me or not you are about to explode.before it happen tell your wife to spare time for you & her,even if is one day off.if she ask why let her know how you feel & things are getting worse.& is bringing woud in you & you want to heel it.all the best
If ya wife can work for 24 hrs but still manage herself,why cant a grown up man do the same? Are you disabled?Why would you want the kids to value you, while they watch their mum make ends meet? I wonder who nurtured such a warped son(meaning you)with such kind of cheap thoughts.A man is the head of the house if he is the bread winner of the family. Why do you want to depend on ya wife ,while she has the same two hands and five brains like you got? You should be grateful that she pays most of the bills and still keeps you, I wouldnt even dream of it! Not even ONE would entertain that, Talk to many women and you will be shocked.
@ kk am shocked that you said, that back home you were the breadwinner. So what is it that you saw/met that you cant be a breadwinner in wangos yet you got kids you call ya own!! What sort of a man are you? are you trying to say that you would have preffered if all ur wifes money was banked in ya account,that would make you feel like you were the head. huh.... mate ya dead wrong...Work and earn yours,,,You dont deserve to be a head but the foot!!! Stop being greedy and envious of ya wife if you cant manage ya own money dunia itakufundisha ndugu.
So what is keeping you in wangos.It is not a law that you got to follow it and keep living here,. pack and leave,,,Useless men who think that everthing comes in a silver plate. Wacha uzembe fanya kazi kama waashwa and behave like a man usilete forojo zenu hapa,KUPAMBAVU
Not alot of sympathy with ya nonsense... need more more,,,,, try sainsbury check out staff required.. haa. They are also taking on in my local Aldi,,,,, oooooh and before i forget one pound shop is recruiting too. Get extra pennies and stop being greedy,,,maraya ma mbia.
Sorry for your feelings.
Just to let you know that I had proposed to my primary school mate who earned more than I did. I sent my parents to her parents and all was refused. Her parents argued that she was going to sort of care for me and even pay dowry for me. She was adviced to end our relationship. We parted way and I left Kenya. She informed me that she was pregnant by a letter but I never replied as I had married a muzungu.
I live a good life. She never got anyone to marry although she became very senior, a matron of Kenyatta National Hospital in Nairobi. I did not and do not feel guilty at all. So my advice is that if she is not careful please relax and try to live your life as best possible. I wish you luck
KK ndugu, usife moyo! You are a product of good breeding, lakini you just need to tweek you mindset to fit in with your current circs. Just sit down with you misus and have a heart to heart about your true emotions, especially the picture imposed on your children. I am sure she will compromise. One has to work with what is at hand and at the moment, your are within the western system......try to work with it rather than wish for what you had. Good luck...