I really need a response from ladies/girls who have experience the loss of their virginity to someone else apart from their current lover!

Anyway, my girlfriend lost her virginity to a guy whom she went out with for about two yrs ( That time I had been going out with her but did not have sex with her yet). The girl said they had sex three times only..........anyway, my question is " do you girls/ladies still remember the first time you lost your virginity and especially the moves of your first lover?....that is when you had a voluntary sex with him???
Please tell me the truth.....coz I really need to know!!

Thanks alot for your response!

GUY, YOU ARE FEELING INSECURE AND YOU JUST NEEDED TO KNOW WHETHER SHE'LL HANG IN THERE OR GO BACK TO THE FIRST DICK SHE'S EVER TASTED. GIRLS WILL NEVER FORGET THE FIRST GUY WHO PENETRATED THEM (NO MATTER WHAT THEY TELL YA). DROP THE SH*T WHO WAS HANGING OUT WITH YOU YET FUC*ED SOMEBODY ELSE AND MAKE A FRESH START. YOU WON'T REGRET IT.
A SL*T IS A S*UT!

I lost my virginity to my sister when i was 13. After that i took up fucking farm animals... sheeps and cows etc

Big Peter...

So you lost your virginity to yo' sis in Tasmania and now you fck sheep and cows in NZ?

Good one.

bwhaha hahah...

Well, I lost my virginity to my first boyfriend. I am with someone else now whom I love so much. I still remember my first boyfriend though but I think I've found a better man so I don't think of my first at all. Of course that's 3 years ago, so time does play a part. Before I would always think of him, his sex moves etc.. Now my current lover is better at the sports and PLUS he loves me a whole lot more so there is great satisfaction.
I believe in falling in love second time around. I think the second time is even better!
Just my views...

Hi Mate,

You are actually questioning your relationship when you are asking this question. This is actually betrayal in a relationship. This girlfriend of yours, lost her virginity, and you wanna be assured that she will not go at your back and screw around.

Mate, lemme ask you this question. DO you love her? and does she love you?, i mean real love, not because she is opening her legs to you, which is lust, not love. If in your relationship, you feel insecure why, continue on the relationship. When you doubt a relationship now, when you twos are just friends, it will turn out that, you will doubt your relationship when you are married. It is better to part from the relationship now then, later, when it will hurt you and her.

Now, true love covers all. If you truely love her, you should forget her past. She is with you. Stop dragging the past into your relationship. many relationships dont work out well becoz, people so much focused on the past. Never focus on the past, no matter how many times, something in your mind tells you, how used up your girlfriend was when you meet her.

Every day is a new day, people who live in the past, today will never live this day to enjoy the beauty. So you see, lots of people, live in the past, and drag on past problems into their lives today and mess themselves up.

Mate, what i am saying is, if you love this gurl, why focus on her past? maybe your thinking can lead her to do it again. So clear your minds from the past, and build your relationship on what matters today, that you love her like a princess and she will respect and treat you like her prince.

good luck.

cool_guy

Phew!! I like this one! You sound like a Prince yourself Mr cool guy!

Nice, nice,.. great words of encouragement. I've learnt something now.

Example

Thanks example for your comments. I hope you find it helpful in your relationship.

cool_guy

Batz,dont worry and feel insecure, from my experience its how you treat,respect and love her does matter coz i do loss mine 3 years back now which i had stable relationship for about a year but it didnt work out as i thought coz he was just interested in doing it and now i am with a man that loves,respects and treat me right like a princess oh! and does know what he is doing so fuck the 1st time, move on and enjoy what you have coz it comes once!!!!!!!!!!
cheers

cadiz thats so cool, keep on living, people that wanna get a bite of you and are not interested in your well being are people who feed on the weak and dump them and move on. So, dont you let man or woman treat you like a dirt bag, rise up and have confidence in yourself, and make sure you dont jump into bed with everyone, that you come across.

The gurl that i loved, i had to remain pure with her, makig sure that she respects me as a person, and not some sex toy that she can come use it and move on. I made sure, i respected her, and yes, we were togeter for about 5 years, but, becoz, we loved each other too much, we did not jump into bed, when we were still at school.

We knew that, somehow she fall pregnant, she or i would not be able to complete our studies, so we had to make some tough decisions to remain pure for each other.

well, you can remain pure with someone, sex is not the answer to a relationship. Love and respect can come when you abstain from sex and treat each other with respect and love.


cool_guy

thanks cool guy,
bless you & your leva,just wanna say one more thing to those who are still googling, if someone is not faithful to you unlike what you do them dont hang on but let go even if you loss your virginity to them coz it wont do you good but before make a move stop and think bear in mine not to do the same mistake and jump quickly into bed with them but have good clean relationship with them first and do check them out be honest in whatever you say and makeup your mind if he/she is da one than go ahead.Otherwise too many times into bed with different manmeri will make you a slot or pamukeeeeee - not nice
chacha.