Hi,

Why is it hard for a Men to commit?Why is it hard for a Man to make decisions regarding love and relationships?

Thank you

Well it is a guy thing, most us guys are happy go lucky creatures, we basically go with the flow and all we have to worry about is ourselves. Now that sounds selfish but we avoid committment because sometimes us guys feel that we are not ready to be able to take care of another person coz we can't take care of ourselves. When we start a committment we have to be resposible for the feelings and lives of others and to some of us boys that is a scary thought...a few of us arn't reponsible for ourselves LOL...

Hope that provided some insight to your problem

I think you'll find that most men give the appearance of not wanting to commit or not wanting to talk about love etc because it's just not macho enough. You will be surprised how many have it in their minds all the time but don't want to let it out because of the image it creates. You know , "We're just cool guys so bring it on baby" but secretly we may be a bit frightened of all this stuff. Street Cred is the main thing in a guys life until he matures in his head ( round about 70 years old LOL )