Self care first!

Sometimes we can do it, sometimes we can't. It all depends on what is going on with you right now. Your dh needs to understand this, and if he can't, you just have to protect yourself.

We missed two nephews birthdays cause, well, on one's bday, I was having a d&c. TGod my dh is supportive...but you know, we all are in different places at different times.

You can either plan something unavoidable (diarrhea!) or a spa treatment, but do not go. Send them a nice something-something so you don't lose the friendship. Unless she has been a real ass, in which case, do not bother!

Sending you hugs!