Goodluck with your cycle. I was posting under 'jane' earlier this year about chemical pregnancy and loss. I am 38 too and have some off the same life experiences as you.
Decided not to get involved in chat below but really upset that the other jane who posted might be construed to be me. It's a common name. So I am now jane-London.
Good luck to everyone- I hope everyone find what they seek on this board or a new one. I am not criticising the other jane she is entitled to her opinions as you are yours. But as we are in very similar boats wanted to say goodluck.