'I have "friends" who tell me to "pray" and "let it happen" oh and if one more person tells me to "just relax it will happen" AH! They mean well, I know..but when you are trying to have a baby after 3 miscarriages...its very hard to relax every month as you know'
It will get worse before it gets better, I am sorry to say! They all mean well, I promise, so just giggle on the inside!
I wrote this a while ago, all taken from thing people actually say. Might make you smile if you have had this experience:
"An Insensitive Chat About Infertility. Or: The Worst Advice Ever"
http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/11753767
As for the drugs, again, get a second opinion but some Dr.s think forcing extra eggs can decrease the quality. If you are worried about possible quality they might not want to add drugs.
Good luck and hang in there, it's going to get better!
Hugs,
Sara H