At 36 I had a 20 FSH on day 3 (which is worse than what you have), an AMH of 1.7, and 13 antral follicles. I was told that donor eggs were my only hope also which I now realize was a complete joke! Once I found an RE with a good lab and a sensible protocol I got pregnant through IVF and had a healthy daughter, and this was at age 39.
Plenty of REs would jump at the chance to work with you, and you definitely need to find someone else who isn't such a bonehead. I think your chances are excellent! If you want to post your location I'm sure other people here will have recommendations.