at one time or another and no one should ignore that, ever. But, in this case, since you are posting Anon, which is totally your right, we don't know exactly what you are referring to.
Honestly, however you have been hurt I am so sorry and they should not have happened... not to any of us. But, the nice thing about computers is they turn off! And, since most of us don't know each other anyway in real life, just put it down to jealousy, pettiness and... well, we don't know what anyone looks like so I have to say that my mental image of people shifts from time to time... sometimes I let it shift enough to just make me laugh and that helps!
To all: I know we are all full of different hormones and feelings and all sorts of crap but do try to be nice... or just don't post. Life is too short!
Hang in there, all!
Love and hugs,