He is very nice and personable, and he's probably a great choice. Frankly, I'd go to anyone in that practice. They have a nice new young guy who I also met who does a lot of the surgeries there, so he'd probably do your surgery. I would feel comfortable trusting them to take good care of you, and their lab is excellent (which is HUGE for those of us who have few eggs).
Hang in there--sometimes we have to go through a lot of crap before we get our happy endings! At only 35, you have a LOT, repeat, LOT of hope.