I've been poking around the other boards (as I always have) and am really excited to see what you're up to! I think I looked at either the same (or a very similar) BCBS MA plan when my husband changed jobs and spent some time looking at the DE benefit. I'm sure the yellow board ladies know much better than I do, but I was looking around for clinics with large in-house donor pools (to avoid agency fees) and one I had my eye on was San Diego Fertility Center. It requires travel, but they have really good stats and they say they take "all major insurances". I think there's a couple women on the DE pink board who've used them- I think maybe a woman named "birdy" is one? In any case, it looks like you're all over this and doing great. I am keeping an eye out for updates from you and really REALLY hoping for good news from you sometime in the near future!