I am so sorry . . . I had to try four REs (including Dr. Check) in four different states before I finally found the right one, but once I did I had instant success, and that was at age 39. As for my IVFs, first one was a horrible protocol, second one started too late by Dr. Check so had a dominant follicle, third had a chemical pg, fourth I couldn't stim because I was whacked out on DHEA, and fifth with my fourth and final RE was success! Don't base your decision on how the IUI worked; IVF is far, far more effective.
I obviously wish that I had gone to my last RE right away . . . he had the right stuff--sensible approach, great support team, excellent lab. I DO recommend that you thoroughly research before you do it again to avoid ending up like me.
I in no way had to go through all this . . . had I found my doc at 36 when I started trying I have no doubt that I would have succeeded right away then too. However, going through all this does make you very grateful when you finally get there.