The first poster might be correct, though I don't know, I'm not a Dr.
Have you posted on the "Over 40" board? I have only looked there once or twice but the ladies seem so nice and helpful and would have a much better idea for you.
From what I know, from my experience though I am 11 years younger than you, if you want this to happen quickly then egg donation is a great way to go! And, the price is off set by how much you'll save in on not doing cycles that might not work for you.
Do find a high FSH friendly Dr. who is not put off by your situation being different from others. If you just say what general area you live in someone on this board or the other might be able to help you find a Dr. that works with ladies with high FSH.